Just a thought if you follow Sandi's suggestion about "manning up" a bit I wonder if it will throw her off course a bit. As in if she planned to do something would she think twice about it! Sorry if its a bit vague..
What were her other LL's perhaps you can try those instead of touching for a bit, leave it a week before you try that one again, if she shrugged you off she is not ready to accept that yet. Sorry its just a quickie work is manic.
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