Steve M suggested you grow a spine from as far back as end Nov 2009. Seriously, it's time you took that advice. Filing or not, your W is still pulling all your strings and jerking you around at will.
If you were her, would you even have any respect, much less attraction, for you?
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.