Where in the world did that come from !!!

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You are right Cutter, BIG difference between W walking out to W walking out to be with OM. That really does f@%k you up, although I was strangely calm within minutes of finding out.

Wasn't ready to get back into the real world till about a week ago no matter how much I tried to convince myself I was.

Regardless of my coffee friend, I think I am really getting the detachment thing.


I'm going to be OK, and the kids are going to be OK (or as much OK as I can help them to be) regardless of what W decides to do with her life.

It's a very empowering feeling I have to say and it sort of releases you from all the crap you've been going thru.

Took me 6 months to get here and I'm so glad I have finally arrived, now I can get on with my life independant of what W does or doesn't do and know that if she wants to come back, then I have a big decision to make, if she doesn't we'll all be good anyway.

I now have at least some Wisdom. Thank you all