Hi Doc, I wish Retro was possible here. H can not be guided thru me to even try some improved communication method, he resists anything that comes from me. At least his first reaction is refusal.
Yesterday I sent him an email. Telling him he needs to inform me what is going on. It was calm and despite the issue very "caring-loving". No reply. During MC he said he doesnt ignore me, he "just does not respond to me". If anyone can point out the difference for me I would gladly listen.
This morning my D didnt want to go to school. He heard her complaining, heard me upset and woke up and yelled at her. I told him "I dont need your yelling, thanks!". He went quiet and eventually fell asleep (dont even know what time he came back last night).
I cooked a wonderful shrimp spaggeti and cheesepie last night. It was after midnight when I finished. I had already eaten so I just stored it but needed to cook because I love it. This morning I saw H had sniffed it out of the fridge and ate it all!!!
I am planning on starting having a massage every 2 weeks. Never done that and I need it.
I am also thinking of highlighting my hair. I have turned completely white! Even my eyebrows !! I will soon be blonde with very little effort... K
