Fighting for my M and H

[holdingon]

Cindy,
Can you ask your counselor if he knows any solution based pro-marriage counselors in San Antonio? I have been to two counselors, one a Christian, both want me to set a timetable then move on. H has not mentioned counseling, but I'd like to have bases covered. Let me know if you find anything out. Thanks a bunch. Happy Thanksgiving.

BTW, I think when they say, "I am going anyway" it lets them think they are not committing anything, just giving you a casual invite. My H has invited me to things, but if I invite him he says no. Again, part of the putting pressure on them (even if we make the invite with no strings attached). Do I get it? No. But just wanted you to know I have heard the same stuff from my H.

We should meet for lunch sometime!