Well Allen A, you sound just like my mom...She said the same thing in so many words. I told her what happended and she said to just wait and see what happens. I asked her if should be "busy" when and if he decided to call me. She said no, not to be tit for tat because he's probably under the influence of other people sure as friends and family.

I guess I'm just angry and hurt. More so disappointed. She also said that marriage is hard work and takes time through such struggles to heal and move forward.

I do appreciate you taking the time to respond. I went to the gym this evening and I feel better and know that I need to work on myself and be happy with me. At this time giving my H some space and keeping my distance will help me not to be so anxious so that's what I'm gonna do for now. His birthday is in March so I will touch base with him then to wish him a happy bday.


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