Lotus butt out. All you do on this board is spout your boiler-plate template one paragraph of advice... i.e. GO TO RETROUVILLE. If you have nothing better to say other than attack me then get lost.
Butt out? Where do you think you are? At your private office? Where is your shingle?
This is a bulletin board and everyone's opinion is of the same value. It's free. If you were a professional marriage counselor you would have credentials and charge a fee. Your advice should come with a warning. "If this doesn't work, you may find yourself divorced."
I have plenty of people on this board and in real life who have thanked me for my advice. Retrouvaille is successful in at least 50% of the marriages that go there. That is an excellent success rate. They don't pit one spouse against the other. They teach people how to get along and understand each other. Not how to manipulate and control others in a master/servant relationship which is doomed to longterm failure.
