G Told you I'm not used to losing, without a fight.
Do have a question, hope you or someone can help me understand.
In Oct, She left the D papers at my office to sign. [1st time] I had refused, but read them. Couldn't understand that she had filed as if all was settled, no contest on anything physical. House still has some mortgage, but nothing else. Cars, trucks, boat, time shares, retreat, other property, construction equipment, etc, etc. No split, selling, dividing anything. All to stay the same, by 'mutual agreement'. When I asked about it, she said she knew I would never cheat her, she just wanted a divorce to be 'free'.
I had never heard of a D without property settlements. She didn't ask for anything. Would have nothing without it, unless her father died.
This, and her passion for her faith, and 'God's Law's' have been what confused me most. Everyone I know, and her family have said I worry about nothing, should know she would never go through with it, should know her better. Haven't felt it the last 4 month's.
My feelings of her trip lean heavy to what you say. The way she has always been since I met her 27 years ago say diff. But still have too many doubt's from the last few month's to not follow through with 'worst case' possibilities.
