Give me a break! What are we doing here, war games? This is not a war, and you will not win if she loses. Just as she wasn't winning when you were losing.
Gnosis is a self-admitted male chauvinist who is divorcing his own wife. Why do you take marital advice from him?
If your wife wants to reconcile, and you think you might want to reconcile, then get yourselves to a real marriage counselor. It's time to stop playing games and get some real help. Sheesh!
Lotus butt out. All you do on this board is spout your boiler-plate template one paragraph of advice... i.e. GO TO RETROUVILLE. If you have nothing better to say other than attack me then get lost.
As for me being a male-chauvinist... yes, I am. And I am FAR MORE than only that, but you refuse to look past your snooty nose. Get off your high-horse and actually help someone for a change.
