alaskangal,

You are so funny!
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but shoot girl, go get you some! He is your H after all


Nothing beats safe sex with H!!!

You gave me a different perspective on what he said too!
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What matters is that he asked YOU to go with him.
As for the friends, he may feel uncomfortable at the moment around your mutual friends, given the circumstances of your marriage.



Both absolutely TRUE! I didn't stop to consider these points before. I just assumed !

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Don't start second guessing him now....go with the positive...


Yes, I'll go with what I know!

I think tonight I'll leave the boys with my friends while I visit my h....that way the kids don't need to be involved in what mommy & daddy are doing .

Thanks! And happy Thanksgiving!

Cindy