I made a GAL babystep today . I found out that a fellow consultant in my field is organizing a social night at a pub soon. I genuinely enjoy the folks in my field, but I don't get to see them much because I'm self-employed. I won't know most of the people but I will know some of them. In the past I would have skipped it because H has never put the kids to bed without my help. But now I'm GAL. I could be fun and good for business. But tonight I emailed him and asked him if he'd be willing to look after the kids that night. I didn't mention what event it was. I don't want it to look like a date, but OTOH, it's none of his business and he doesn't report his activities to me, so not sure how to handle that part. Curious to see how he responds.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I found out that a fellow consultant in my field is organizing a social night at a pub soon. I genuinely enjoy the folks in my field, but I don't get to see them much because I'm self-employed. I won't know most of the people but I will know some of them. In the past I would have skipped it because H has never put the kids to bed without my help. But now I'm GAL. I could be fun 
