Dane, I signed up at Match.com. The thing is, I was completely honest and open about my sitch in my profile, and it seems to be the best thing I could have done. Alot of the "friends" I am talking with, respect the honesty-imagine that??!!!
I think, if I ever do date any of them, that my honesty will pay dividends in the long run. Just my .2 cents.

By the way, I am not recommending that anyone that is having M problems-start dating. That is a personal decision, that shouldn't be taken lightly. You need to KNOW, I mean really KNOW, that you are moving forward before you do it.

Don't take all of that emotional baggage with you. Leave it at the threshold of your old life. Don't cross over with all that garbage, if you do, you aren't ready to cross over. It wouldn't be fair to the new interest, to bring that junk into their life, and a new relationship. Work on yourself. GAL. Know in your mind and heart that you are a good person, and you don't DESERVE to be treated this way.

Drop the rope.

LIVE.


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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