You know what, Kevin. I am really sorry you don't have a job. I really am.
If you think detaching is going to happen because you took your W off your phone, well, I am not sure if you are being a total smart ass or that is really where you are at.
Whoever asked was spot on - you had LOTS of good posts made to you today and while I understand your mind is really occupied with job stuff, you have not addressed any of them.
If your goal is to "detach, detach, detach" then post HOW you will do that. What steps will you take?
Every suggestion that is made to you that is very far "outside your normal box" you don't even address. You say "thank you" and breeze on by.
So for the umpteenth time this week I ask you... what exactly do you want to gain from this site? Are you seeking support only in the way you want it? People really dig deep with you and really put many of their (painful) experiences out there. There have been two posts on your thread in the past two days made by other members that were so powerful to me I printed them out to really study/think about.
Bright New Day just posted on my thread...and I was reading her quotes in her signature line:
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn "You gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone oughtta be." from Eat, Pray, Love
I think they are great! What do you think?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Checking in again Kevin! Hope your absence means you are so busy at your new job.
Take care.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I am feeling at peace about things. I have started really enjoying myself and relaxing about things this past couple of days. I have a couple of leads on jobs and I have faith that everything will work out for the best and the glory of God.
I am limiting my time on here as I don't think it was healthy for me to be on here as much as I was. It caused me to focus even more on my sitch. So in laying off of this site, I am really focusing on me and enjoying myself and taking care of what I need to.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Glad you are well Kevin. Maybe a break is what you need.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I am limiting my time on here as I don't think it was healthy for me to be on here as much as I was. It caused me to focus even more on my sitch. So in laying off of this site, I am really focusing on me and enjoying myself and taking care of what I need to.
Now THIS is a good sign for you, I agree with you 100 percent.
No need to even go into details, hope you have a good few days, or whenever we hear from you again.
Peace Kevin..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
