MHL, it sounds like you're doing a great job with keeping your eye on the parenting ball. As a mother, I can't imagine being as oblivious as your W apparently is right now. Your D13 is at such a fragile age and it's wonderful that you're getting help for her. I remember the post-divorce high school girls who were hurting so much, but it doesn't have to be that way.
Your sitch sounds clear as mud. Wishing you lots of strength and patience.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
