A co-worker recommended him to me. It was purely chance that I had told him what was going on with me...a couple of months later I called him on his offer of help and that is when he told me of the counselor. The counselor is with an organization called Reconciliation Ministries. Maybe you could look up that business name in your city directory? LIke you, I had difficulty finding a counselor that was SB...usually I'd inform the counselor that I wanted their help keeping us married before my h came in....you could try that?.