Heh, I'm not even involved and I feel like _I_ need seat belts .
Sorry you're here but welcome CGU - just to express my best wishes. I'll defer to Gnosis and his learned evil alter ego, I'm sure they will have sterling advice for you.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.