My boundary was I would not be her friend if she moved on with another man. She has moved on with the OM...so I will not be her friend.
I'm gonna try to be a good coparent and not to be an ass...but I cant look at her anymore without thinking about that OM all over her...that 41 year old OM all over her.
I'm wondering if she's gonna flip out if she sees the pictures have been taken down and the locks have been changed. I'm not gonna bring it up...and I only did it so I dont have to see her face when I walk around my home and so that neither she nor anyone else who had a copy of our key could come over and take something while I'm not home (or in the case of the OM, bash my head in while I AM home).
I think I'll read the ALRT pages in DR again. Though if I dont want to be with her anymore...is that really helping me?
