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Dudes, let me be clear. I am so down with Miss Someone I ought to be on the Walkaway support board. Dig it - I just hope you understand, sometimes the clothes do not make the man.

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Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Dudes, let me be clear. I am so down with Miss Someone I ought to be on the Walkaway support board. Dig it - I just hope you understand, sometimes the clothes do not make the man.

Gotcha. Comprehende. Alles klaar. Ich verstend. Intiendes. Katalava.

So what clothes are those you're wearing lately... I'm sure Mindfull wants to know.

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I do have a few suggestions! smile


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See? She's impetuous isn't she... laugh


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Flash-incoming STBX message traffic:

Again, thank you for last night. It was very thoughtful, and I know it was difficult for you and way outside the parameters of doing what's best for the kids.  The food was amazing and, frankly, it was good to spend some non-combat time with you.  It was also hard for me. This whole thing is much easier for me when you are being - shall we say - "unfriendly"

See? No foul.

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...sounds like tentacles to me.

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...sounds like tentacles to me.



This is the first thing to pop in my mind.

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''Scuse me,' said the Elephant's Child most politely, 'but my father has spanked me, my mother has spanked me, not to mention my tall aunt, the Ostrich, and my tall uncle, the Giraffe, who can kick ever so hard, as well as my broad aunt, the Hippopotamus, and my hairy uncle, the Baboon, and including the Bi-Coloured-Python-Rock-Snake, with the scalesome, flailsome tail, just up the bank, who spanks harder than any of them; and so, if it's quite all the same to you, I don't want to be spanked any more.'

'Come hither, Little One,' said the Crocodile, 'for I am the Crocodile,' and he wept crocodile-tears to show it was quite true.

Then the Elephant's Child grew all breathless, and panted, and kneeled down on the bank and said, 'You are the very person I have been looking for all these long days. Will you please tell me what you have for dinner?'

'Come hither, Little One,' said the Crocodile, 'and I'll whisper.'

Then the Elephant's Child put his head down close to the Crocodile's musky, tusky mouth, and the Crocodile caught him by his little nose, which up to that very week, day, hour, and minute, had been no bigger than a boot, though much more useful.

'I think,' said the Crocodile--and he said it between his teeth, like this--'I think to-day I will begin with Elephant's Child!'



Cheers


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Okay, maybe I'm too bogged down in the nit-noid details of revising my book to be abstract, but this @Gypsy / @Coach colloquy is going to require some elaboration.

So STBXMRSSP is appreciative, is willing to express that appreciation twice, recognizes that the act was outside the purview of my obligations, suggests that it's harder for her to carry-on with her course-of-action when I'm not "that monster," and this is bad because...?

The "tentacles" thing and the crocodile thing is eluding me. Again, maybe it's checking footnotes and dates and the like, but totalmente no comprendo.

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I might be mixing my fairy tales, SP, but I think they're saying that "her teeth are all the better to eat you with," and to just be careful about what's lying underneath the nice little ol' grandlady mask.

But I could be wrong.

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Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Dudes, let me be clear. I am so down with Miss Someone I ought to be on the Walkaway support board. Dig it - I just hope you understand, sometimes the clothes do not make the man.


I haven't chimed in on anyone's thread for a bit but I thought I would squeak out a reply, continue doing what you're doing for the most part because she is starting to let her guard down a bit but....

When you got up and left when she mentioned taking off for a week to hook up with the OM, your response seemed a bit emotional even if it wasn't verbally communicated that way.

Seriously who cares at this point?!
Let her be whatever way she wants to be.
You do what you're doing.
In fact, she wants to mention the OM, turn it around on her and ask her for advice on what your GF would like when you guys are fooling around, even if it's not for real, throw it back on her, you can dish it out as good as you can take it and watch for her response. I get the feeling that maybe she thinks that Miss Someone is a fake person you concocted to make her jealous which is why still treats you poorly when the mood strikes her.

But above all, even if you don't do any of this, enjoy your life SP, you aren't dealing with drama anymore, if she wants to go batshitcrazy, let her, just turn around and leave, tell her you can't be bothered to waste your time listening to her when she's like this. If she wants to be nice to you, great but if not, no worries, your life is awesome regardless what she does. Never forget that.

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