Mind. Yes, the girls are great, all make me proud. God does have a sense of humor. We had one S, then two D. Thought 4 couldn't be bad, might have another boy. Know God was laughing when I found out it wouldn't be a boy, was twin girls.
It was her family, our kids. [mine in diff state] All knew the situation, and she had asked for D.
She wanted a full D. Needed to be 'free' to make her own choices.
Math is my thing, but don't try to keep up with my bad grammer
Contact was FB only that I know. Was told by others she cut that off in Dec. But she never told me. Truth? or not?
D17's home. W said one way. D21 said she left with thought to find cheaper tic back.
And, yes, she is used to me giving her an immediate response, in any situation.
Her request to pick up grandson, be together 3 trips back and forth blindsided me. But so did her call 3 days ago. Talked for 30 minutes, little things she said, but I'm afraid to trust. ie; Everyone was right...Can't go back...All friends have agenda's, lost mine...needed escape...feels like a fantasy...need to find what's real...know D isn't the answer, but feel confused...etc.etc...didn't know if I could forgive her, maybe we need to seperate.
complaints:felt bored, lonely. Economy as it is,I spend more time bidding, too much business, not enough time w/her.
She's never had to work, but don't have the shopping $ as before. Used to give her 500 a week. Now only for bills.
180's. trying to be cosistant in giving complments when poss. spend more time with girls, 4 wheelin, whatever comes to mind. Don't say I love you. Don't try to talk, unless she starts, then try to just answer, not offer or start anything else. If she asks how I am, I'm fantastic, and you? She stops there. At least she did till the last 10 days. Now, seems she has a lot to say, about herself. So I let her talk.
