Sandi I fully appreciate what you're saying. I will be taking things very slowly. I'm by no means saying that I'm ready to throw in the towel on M yet (or pick out new ones with someone else).
I think Cutter put it really nicely when he said:
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That good time feeling is fantastic. Guess what you just learned that you can have it again. Just remember it goes away just a quickly.
Feels great doing something for yourself does it not.
I guess I'm getting way ahead of myself here, just wanted to make the point that if things did go OK with this woman, then there would come a time to close the door on W and this part of my life and start the next part.
Deep, no problems, chip in whenever you want to. I so appreciate that you guys are taking time out of your lives to show interest in complete strangers.
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I guess I'm saying take your time and be sure what you want. Best of luck.
I still want my W and our M. I also want to feel like a Normal person again.
I get the LBH Fog too. Sometimes you just feel "Hey She did this, why can't I!".
Look, over the last 6 months my emotions have taken the biggest beating, I guess in a way it's like a drug for me to actually feel good, so I have to treat it like that.
Maybe just a little bit now and then for Medicinal purposes - but not overboard.
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H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010