((Andy)) you made me cry with that last post. To hear the love for your W, it sounded so much like my H. I am the most blessed woman in the world to have a H who can forgive, forget, and love me the way he does. I pray that one day your W will realize what she is doing and see how much you love her.....but most of all, I pray that she will return home and become the person who won your heart. I can't give up hoping that will happen! Some people I tell them if I think they just need to move on, but I can't tell you that PatPat......I just can't tell you to give up.

I don't know why we feel a certin bond that we tend to make with people, but I do feel that with some I meet here on the board. I feel so much in my heart for them and their stitch. Don't know if that comes through my writing or not, but I do.

You are in a "waiting" time frame, it seems, and that must be awful hard. However, you sound so strong and solid. I just wanted you to know that I admire anyone who has been able to do what you have, and I want to encourage you to continue GAL b/c you deserve to do that.

Take care and post when you can. Don't worry about not having anything "new" b/c it's always good to hear from you. I have seen a few places where you've reached out to other newcomers and that's good.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!