I've decided I won't be sleeping with my h any longer. It is not helping our r progress. Maybe after some counseling sessions, this may change but until then no more.
My h has the best of both worlds...getting his sexual needs met as a married man and acting like he's single. He avoids the relationship and my needs but gets his met. There needs to be some progression before we can become intimate. Anyway he says sex is no guarantee that he'll want to be married to me so I figure it is not to my advantage to be intimate with him. I feel grateful that he wants me and only sleeps with me but I still feel used because his attitude toward me does not change. I'm confused by what to do. I think sex causes him to avoid dealing with the r. He has no idea what the d will be like because he's always had me there.
