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Re: See hope, want to get there luvless #1928401 02/02/10 01:42 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Hi Dale!!! OK, I'm going to re-read and comment, but, WARNING! I give the WORST advice! LoL I see some of my friends are here already. We're a rowdy group, but nothin' but love! Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: See hope, want to get there luvless #1928403 02/02/10 01:43 AM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67 C Can't give up OP Member
OP Can't give up Member C Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67	I feel dizzy right now, trying to sort it all out. Going back through every thing I've learned the last 2 month's, everything that's been said, and happened the last 2 weeks. Trying to weigh against DB, DR, and quotes from diff sitches on his site of simalar trials. Hope comes from the slight softening before she left, and the drastic diff she relays now. Much less, more talk than she's offered in one call, than the last 4 month's total.

Re: See hope, want to get there mindfull #1928407 02/02/10 01:47 AM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67 C Can't give up OP Member
OP Can't give up Member C Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67	Glad to have you MF. As far as your advice, think you cut yourself short. If I'm wrong, it would still be an insight when I feel lost, don't have a clue what to think now.

Re: See hope, want to get there Can't give up #1928415 02/02/10 01:55 AM
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mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Dale - Random thoughts while reading... -- You had so many girls! Oy! I have ONE D18, and I'm ready to sell her to the highest bidder! -- Thanksgiving dinner - Was it just your immediate family? If not, did everyone know you were living separate? (Wondering because it appears she was trying to save face.) -- Need papers signed... Are you talking legal separation papers? -- Grammar Nazi - (Had went... no... Had GONE!) I can't do math, though. -- Pre-trip home, was she openly communicating w/this old friend from Facebook? -- One way ticket? ISN'T THIS WOMAN A MOTHER? Don't you still have, at least, the D17's at home? SHEESH! -- The txt, then "accidental" call to Valerie - she's not used to you NOT replying to her. -- Random trip is odd... OK, now I have to think. Can't wait to see what G says!!! G's good strategy-wise. We need to introduce you to Cutter Bug, as well... He's good w/the potential infidelity stuff. And, my girls are showin' up! Can't be all bad! Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: See hope, want to get there Can't give up #1928417 02/02/10 01:56 AM
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Gnosis Member G Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779	Stick around... this is going to get nasty... I'm not pulling any punches with you Dale. I'm a quarter of the way through my response to you...

Re: See hope, want to get there mindfull #1928419 02/02/10 01:57 AM
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mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Dale - What were some of her complaints? What 180's have you done? What boundaries did you enforce re: living in same home, w/her having an interest in another man? Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: See hope, want to get there mindfull #1928420 02/02/10 01:58 AM
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Gnosis Member G Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779	Answer Mind... I want to know that too. And Handfull... STOP CRYING! Last edited by Gnosis; 02/02/10 01:59 AM.

Re: See hope, want to get there Gnosis #1928427 02/02/10 02:03 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Isn't G cute? I'm done crying, G. Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: See hope, want to get there Gnosis #1928428 02/02/10 02:04 AM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67 C Can't give up OP Member
OP Can't give up Member C Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 67	OK G, Give me a minute.

Re: See hope, want to get there Can't give up #1928435 02/02/10 02:13 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	taptaptap Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

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