Time and consistent actions from FFG and from yourself will show you if there is anything to fear...doesn't sound like it so far though!
Here's the problem with that:
I had that for 15 years with STBXH. He was a good H for alll those years... no red flags, until 3 years ago.
Yeah, I'd like to say the same, but I just had selective vision...
OK, then, in your case...
Can you just let it be? Go forward eyes wide open, knowing it could end, but enjoying it while it lasts? Honestly I am not sure if I could. I get awfully attached...but if everything is going well now, no need to 'borrow trouble', right?
I'm getting attached and not with out a good reason. I guess I can't/ shouldn't worry about the broken heart thing. I have survived one before I can do it again. Yeah, I am not going to borrow trouble.
He drove 40 min one way to see me before classes today... but we had two hours. He texts me off and on through out the day and I just got one that said "I just wanted to tell you I was thinking about how wonderful and beautiful you are."
See what I'm dealing with here! I'm powerless to resist the charm!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
