Pigskin - I actually put ring back on today for pretty much the reasons you state above. I don't want M to be over and still have some small hope that things can turn.
Good man, tryingtilDor. It's tough to remain honorable when all you get is dumped on. But society needs people who stand up for what is right despite the difficulty.
Regarding kids as mentioned above, I don't care what anyone says about them being able to adapt, they get royally screwed in the divorce deal. Yes, staying only for the kids is not reason enough to keep a marriage together. But it is a huge reason for giving it everything you have. They didn't ask to be born; they deserve parents who work on their differences and find a way to solve them. When you have a child you make a tremendous commitment not only to raise them properly, but to also maintain a loving and healthy family relationship against all trials and tribulations.
I really can't stand books or people who suggest "the kids will be fine if you do it right". Really? They would be a lot more fine if you fixed the marriage and kept the family together...
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
