GAG!!!!! He just wants control. Change all your passwords for absolutely everything to something so bizarre he'll never guess it. I actually used a nickname and my jr. high gym locker combination as my password. No one in the world knows that except me. Yeah, it's a little strange that I still remember it, but it was one of those things that stuck with me.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
OK, it's official. I hate my X. I just dropped off the kids and he insists on holding my car door open so he can check out my car and make sure the kids have everything they need. Yes, they do forget stuff sometimes, but just not worth it to me. He knows I just want to be racing out of the lot.
I know I should be loving and forgiving, but I'm just not right now. And I just got the new couch and recliner delivered, and they are really wonderful and so comfy....Well, I guess this month will be stressful, and then hopefully better soon....
Hope everyone's having a good weekend. I plan to sleep some!
Doesn't it feel awesome to have stuff that is just yours??!! It did wonders for my attitude. I think he is just getting weirder since you are handling everything so well and it wants you to be falling apart.
Way to go.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I can sooo relate. It's so hard to not have feelings of hate against the ex, especially when they act so atrociously towards us. I am still working through the cycles of anger at my ex and how she continues to work hard at grieving me.
But I try to make sure it is anger at her words and deeds and not against her personally -- not easy!
I'm loving the new furniture. D9 tried out the new recliner (kind of a suede material) and fell asleep pretty much instantly. It was so cute! It's hard to drop off the kids sometimes! I've decided instead of running around stressed-out before I drop them off, I'm going to try to take a half hour or 20 minutes or so before we go and just try to relax and spend quiet time (well as quiet as kids get) before we go. It was really crazy this Saturday with homework, furniture guys, and everything else.
S16 has a 504 meeting (X emailed me this weekend). He told me he would attend it and give me copies of the paperwork. I'm going to attend it, b/c I do want to try to get some accommodations in that the local CARD center recommended for him. Will be good to have that over with. With that and the divorce in 2 weeks, I'm feeling stressed today. Just trying to tell myself it'll be over soon....
OK, btw, are we ever going to have a reunion or get-together or whatever you want to call it? This is ridiculous!!!
Yeah, it's a little strange that I still remember it, but it was one of those things that stuck with me.
