Cindy, I have to be honest, if he truly felt the right way about you, he would do whatever he could to try and convince you to drop it. That does not appear to be happening..
Quote: He acts like he's crazy! one minute saying it's over then the next taking me out to lunch.
Careful, just because he takes you to lunch doesn't necessarily mean he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Sometimes, for whatever the reason, legal closure must established before a WA can think of coming back. Many WAs have a need to know how free they are to leave if they choose so, its a test of the R in their minds. How you handle that is crucial in drawing them back towards a worthwhile commitment. Acting calm, and strong and accepting their decision to leave if they so choose, is usually the best approach. trying to manipulate the sitch for your own benefit usually backfires with fatal results, as many of us can attest. Thats letting go of the reins where it matters the most, because until you do, you don't know what you really have in him.
