Moving back in

[flowmom]

I finished by telling her that WE need to decide what is going to happen with the kids.. If we continue on this path, a judge will probably have to decide what happens regarding the kids, when we know the kids best and that it should be decided by us...Period

So true. Good for you! Now that your W has agreed with this, there is a basis for a working relationship. Long after the drama of your sitch abates, you'll still be coparents.