I too did not want the D, my ex did. I hoped until the last day that she would drop it. We dated and ml, but the D was to be. Me and Ex would probably be back together now, but I let my jealousy and dependence on her for my happiness get in the way. Keep praying, God knows what is right, and if its his will then you and H, me and Ex will all be back together. Most times we think these things should be resolved in days and weeks, but in reality it takes months if not years.