Is it appropriate to expose to her parents. I know that if it was me having an affair and someone told my parents they would give me an earful but I am not sure how much pressure they would be able to put on me.
I did (exposed to OM's parents). But it was:
- immediately;
- he LIVED with them still (at age 28 -- how pathetic);
- he was STUDYING TO BECOME A COP (imagine!), and I felt they may want to be aware that their son's behavior was jeopardizing his career, as the policy academy had such strict "conduct unbecoming" rules and such.
Can't say as it did anything. They never even contacted me after they got my letter.
If their affair has been going on this long, I don't think I'd bother, and I'm as pro-exposure as anyone here on these boards. What would you really accomplish? If it were a SPOUSE, I'd say they definitely deserve to not be the only one of the four people affected to NOT know, but parents???
