[quote] you already got millions of chances. whats the true story? what have you been doing to make her so miserable?
you mean why she left? it was because I didnt pay her enough attention or do things with her like we did when we were first dating, I was overprotective of our daughter, and I did everythig around the house and wouldnt let her do anything which made her feel like a guest in her own home.
sure...that kind of stuff would tend to get old after a while...but none of it is stuff that couldnt easily be changed if she had communicated it to me. In fact I really dont do any of that anymore. Of course with her not being here I still have to do all the stuff around the house...but if she were here I wouldnt have a problem letitng her do stuff, going out places and getting a babysitter, etc.
but she made up her mind...says it's too little too late because she had to leave to get me to notice what the problems were and work on them.
so that's it. and now, if she wasnt before she's certainly with the OM...and they're gonna be doing all kinds of disgusting things that I dont even want to think about. so if that's how she wants to be...if she is so selfish that she values her own desires above her daughters needs and well being...then theres nothing I can do.