So you're now punishing your daughter because you felt like lashing out. Good. You're certainly doing your part to see that all those misfortunes fall on your D3 because you can't work on being a good coparent. par for the course.
yeah...my family pointed out as well that that would be punishing D3. So when my ex comes over tomorrow I will tell her that goodnite phone calls are ok as long as I get the same courtesy in return.
And yeah...I said things I shouldnt have...though that doesnt mean what I said wasnt necessarily true.
but like I said...I told her things didnt have to be this way if I'm was getting another chance. I put the ball in her court and I'm going to stick to my decision.
If she never chooses to come back, then it's on her. She's put me through so much hell for reasons that could be easily resolved if she'd sat down and talked like an adult rather than throwing a tantrum to get her way. But I'm almost positive she was either already with the OM or was interested in being with him when she left.
I did get sage advice from people on here...and I do want to offer my thanks for their trying even though I was stupid and didnt follow it. I honestly think my ex's mind was made up when she left, and no matter what I did/do she was still going to be with the OM before giving me a chance. Essentially that makes me the backup guy...and thats unacceptable.
I dunno...knowing me I'll have changed my mind by tomorrow. But as my ex says it's too little too late. And I actually believe thats a good thing at this point...maybe it will keep me from trying or wanting to try. At least maybe I can move on with my life.
