Allen A, It's so hard to balance the right thing to do when your utlimate goal is to make your marriage work. I do think I came accross as desperate to him in some ways, and others very strong. Which I guess sends mixed siganls.
He did call me today and said he would really like to start working on our M. And that he is scared that we won't be able to work it out. I told him I would think about it and maybe I would discuss this with him on Wed. I told him again, that I would not agree to any working on the M as long as he had any contact with OW. He agreed, but I'm not convinced he'll end their R as he has said.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
