My ex had said a lot of really horrible and bad things to me. We feel in out heart why are we being put thru this. Well, there is no answer for that. They will say and act in ways that we never expected. It is always easier looking at someone elses sitch and giving advice. For me the best thing has been to accept what has happened and start living for myself. If my ex likes this new me (actually the old me) then she will want me back, if someone else doesn't come along while she is deciding. If so, and I am happy, then it becomes her loss. Hang in there, before you do or say anything, step back and try to look at the sitch from a unpartial point of view.
