Hoping,

It is amazing how much a person can change when he or she chooses to change. i believe that your wife has made a change because she wants to. And that makes all the difference. You will get more support for piecing your relationship back together on the Piecing forum.

I see you are somewhere in Florida. i am in Tampa. My husband and I restored our marriage and more (we are far better off than we were before) by going to the Tampa Bay Retrouvaille. There is another group in Orlando. This is a wonderful program that is particularly successful when both spouses are interested in improving their marriage. You can check out the website at www.helpourmarriage.org. I highly recommend the program.