C-Bart Thanks. I have worked on myself - trust me. Been in see a C since this began. I have identifed all my issues and the cause of them. In one way you are correct in that I am operating a little bit from fear but it is the fear that I do not want to do anything to make matters worst for me. I want to make sure that the actions I take are both for me and in the hope of restoring a marraige. I was also pretty selfish during the whole marragie, which is why right now I try and sit tight and let her drive but it does drive me a little crazy in taht I feel like I have no idea what i could do to make/see an improvement.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
