My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[pearlharbr]

I wrote my post before seeing your last update.

I went on to insult OM and saying I would always see him as a homewrecker that kept our family from being together. I told her that one day when our daughter wondered why she had problems in school, with relationships, behavioral issues, teen pregnancy, etc. that she would know it was because she didnt grow up in a stable and loving family with both parents.

Glad to see you're still being a jerk. And you wonder why she chooses OM over you?

I told her that things didnt have to be like this between her and I, not getting along and such, and she had the power to end all this if she would just give things a chance.

So then you switch to pursuit which you know will only make the sitch worse. Smart.

She said I had millions of chances over the past 7 or so years and I blew them.

I asked her for her keys back and she said she wouldnt do it until I gave her half the value of the house.

She went on to say again that we're done and we've been done...why couldnt I just accept it and move on.

Of course she did. Why would you expect anything different?

As she was leaving, I told her there would be no more phone calls or text messages unless our daughter was critically ill. She said "I cant call to say goodnight to my daughter?" and I said "no and I wont expect a call to say goodnight to her either".

So you're now punishing your daughter because you felt like lashing out. Good. You're certainly doing your part to see that all those misfortunes fall on your D3 because you can't work on being a good coparent.

It felt good...but then about 30 mins later I wanted to apologize.

That sounds par for the course.

As much as it hurts, I dont want to be with someone who wouldnt sincerely give me another chance and who would break up our family for another man.

Ok, that part I agree with.

I did everything I could to try and get her back and she fought me at every turn.

Nope. I call BS. You certainly did NOT do everything you could because people here gave you a very clear plan of action that you did not follow.

And now I, like your ex, am done here because judging from your past and current actions I'm certain you won't change your ways.