Thanks for the 2x4 pearl but I'm not sure I really need it. As I said I think I'm pretty much done with her.
I did everything I could to try and get her back and she fought me at every turn. I really shouldnt have even been doing that given her bailing on our family and choosing to be with another man.
I'm sick of her saying she gave me chances when she didnt really. As I told her, she didnt choose to sit down and talk to me like an adult but instead chose to make threats as her way of forcing change.
So maybe I'm better off without her. We really shouldnt love someone who hurts us so badly.