Question... I am starting to regret that I am just letting go with husband or OW having no repurcussions. OW is not married and lives about 9 hours away from husband and I so they have a long distance affair. I feel like dropping the rope (which I am doing) and exposure is what I should have done. At least there would have been more crisis than there is now. Right now my husband seems fine that I am finally going along with the divorce and breaking our rental lease. These are all things that he wanted from the beginning but that I was stopping him from.
Should I expose or is it to late to do that? And if I do expose his affair which I know is still going on even after he admitted it to me, no one else knows about it except for my parents. I have contact information for the OW's father. I have his work number. Is it appropriate to expose to her parents. I know that if it was me having an affair and someone told my parents they would give me an earful but I am not sure how much pressure they would be able to put on me.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
