She came over to talk about taxes...I ended up asking a question about why she lied to me about the OM, and the can of Worms was open then.
She told me that sometime last week she and the OM decided to move beyond "just friends". I dont know if I believe that or if they were already more...but I asked her how she could continue to hang out with me on Thursday and Friday if she had decided to see him. I think all she could say was she's sorry.
I went on to insult OM and saying I would always see him as a homewrecker that kept our family from being together. I told her that one day when our daughter wondered why she had problems in school, with relationships, behavioral issues, teen pregnancy, etc. that she would know it was because she didnt grow up in a stable and loving family with both parents.
I told her that things didnt have to be like this between her and I, not getting along and such, and she had the power to end all this if she would just give things a chance. She said I had millions of chances over the past 7 or so years and I blew them.
I asked her for her keys back and she said she wouldnt do it until I gave her half the value of the house.
She went on to say again that we're done and we've been done...why couldnt I just accept it and move on.
As she was leaving, I told her there would be no more phone calls or text messages unless our daughter was critically ill. She said "I cant call to say goodnight to my daughter?" and I said "no and I wont expect a call to say goodnight to her either".
It felt good...but then about 30 mins later I wanted to apologize. So far I havent called her. But I know its over. As much as it hurts, I dont want to be with someone who wouldnt sincerely give me another chance and who would break up our family for another man.
