At the end of the day, I think I'm just a nice guy.
As a reforming 'Nice Guy' that has other connotations here.
What is your motivation for being a nice guy?
If it's because your looking for some outcome, or to change something to your benefit, that's not a good one...
If it's because your compassionate about someone else circumstance, and do something without looking for something in return, or simply as a gift of caring, then that is another thing entirely.
It's hard to tell from your posts at times...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."