Jack - she does not appear confused on the contrary she has been pretty consistent in her desire for a D; however, she has not filed yet. Her plan is to file in September when her car is paid for and a few of the debts are paid down. She has also said that this is "about her" and that she lost herself in the marraige and allowed me to control everything (which i did). My therapist thinks she is having an identity crisis so I do not know if I should take the WAS approach re: the EA or if I should wait and just be patient. This is where i need the most help. She is a very good mother and has been for a while, most of the mistake in the marraige were the result of my immaturity and insecurity (i.e. jealous, controling, etc). I have worked very hard to change these behaviors but I just do not think she is open to seeing any of the changes. Help.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
