I want nothing but the best for my W and I trully do want her to be happy. Life is what it is and being misrable over this hurts noone but me and the kids. I will not do that to them.
Is your wife unhappy? I know you've mentioned that she's not sure if she can get her feelings back for you, but has she told you she's unhappy?
You've mentioned that you feel like you're pressuring her. Has she ever said that?
I'm hearing sometimes that you have lots of conversations with yourself. She doesn't say anything, so you have to play a guessing game. I know you can't get blood from a stone, but until she speaks up, you can't know what she's thinking. I wouldn't assume anything. Go on what information she gives you - you're giving her an excuse not to express herself.
