Elwood,

He showed up at my office today and took me to lunch! Just out of the blue, said he was in the neighborhood and thought he'd stop by for lunch. Huh?

Anyway, when he first got here I asked what was up and he said just wanted to see if I would like to go to lunch. I said I don't know...am I going to get upset...he said that depends on you. So we went, got in the car, talked about boy's soccer game, he asked about their report cards, allergy shots, etc. No R talk. We ate, sat and looked at each other, didn't say anything about anything, then he said are you ready to go, I said when ever you are, and he said well I guess you are ready to go so we left.

During lunch he just looked at me like he was waiting for me to say something. I actually wanted to cry and ask if I could come home (after reading AnitaSues thread I was sorely tempted) but did not. Maybe I should have?

He dropped me off and said he'd see me tomorrow....at our son's soccer practice.

I'm not going to read into his actions because I'm sure it was nothing more than 2 parents getting together and discussing their kids....maybe getting ready for post-d relationship? 7-days until the big d.

Cindy