Schnarch says, when one is pushing for change, the other one is facing a dillemma : grow or dodge. It's what crisis are supposed to be about about. We should LEARN by them. Not repeat history hoping the outcome will be different.
Sounds like he is an Einstein fan: "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
As the LBSs, we couldn't dodge. We had to grow. They dodged for a while, but eventually even they may have to grow lol.
I might have to get that book. I may be in a place to REALLY appreciate it finally.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
