Kids and I were also talking about baby's upcoming 2nd birthday in March and what we wanted to do. I really want to not have the huge bday party and go to Disneyland. Kids want to go too. Something to start planning now.
I thnk you need to prepare yourself for X wanting in on your b-day plans for baby. This would be a good time to set a boundary. If you don't want him to join you then say so! Say "X we are not a family anymore. I am celebrating baby's b-day with MY family. You can celebrate with her during your scheduled time."
He already does want to go with us. I had mentioned Dland before as a maybe thing when he asked. He said let him know how much $ he will need. I think he thought we would share a room that I end up paying for. He couldn't afford it anyway..not a room for 2 nights plus tickets and everything else. I will tell him he can have his own little party here during his time.
He called a bit ago but I ignored the call. I am sure it was to see if he could come by early today instead of his regular time.
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Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
