I haven't read My Husband's Affair... yet. Had it on order from the library but missed the pickup. Will have to request it again. ATA is great for working through how you got to that point and figuring out how to avoid going down that road again. It's been awhile since I read it but I don't think it has a lot of practical advice for individuals, it's more about a couple's journey.
So I will email you for your address and have Amazon send you Not Just Friends. Now I can't help you find time to do all this reading but I will nag you about it.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
