Wife just called me at work to tell me she is going to look at an apartment for me and that I HAVE TO MOVE OUT. She is giving me LS papers tonight and this is for real and she wants out of the marriage and I HAVE TO LEAVE. I told her I'll look at the papers but I am not leaving until legally told I have to. This is getting nasty - but I am trying to stay calm........ If she has to leave, then she says she will leave with my girls and NOT let me see them.


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010