I was a bit of an ass this morning when she came to get our daughter. After thinking about all that was said and done and the way she reacted to things, I've decided that her relationship with the OM started well before she left me, which means even if it isnt cheating now it was then.
I was extremely angry about that, and I let it push me into being a little hateful. She ended up saying something to me about not having to be rude and I said back to her that she didnt "have to be rude to me either but whatever".
She was annoyed that I didnt answer the phone last night or respond to her text message letting her know her tax form was here. I told her I was busy. She wanted to know when I was gonna get the taxes done and I told her I didnt know.
She ended up sending me a text message later to tell me that her sister was gonna pick our D up on Friday and help her out while she was incapacitated due to her teeth extraction.
I didnt really respond when she sent it, but I ended up sending her a message asking her to bring all her tax forms over when she came to drop our D off and to come early so we could discuss them. She said ok after questioning what I wanted to discuss, and asked me if I got the message about Friday.
I said I did and that it was fine. But then I slipped and showed concern for her by saying that I was glad she was gonna have someone to take care of her.
To be honest I really wanted her to come over early because I had initial thoughts of asking her if she was happy with the way things were between us (as opposed to how they were before Friday). But my family talked me out of that...mainly because if she says "yes" she is happy then that will make me feel like crap and show her that she still has control over me.
Oh well...at least I talked to somone before I went and did it this time. If only I had done that on Friday....
