Just watch your reasoning for texting. Make sure you really can't do it by yourself and you aren't asking for help to get one last chance. I am saying this because a lot of times when I get stuck, I just text or call H, when if I just waited a few more hours, I could figure it out on my own and not risk him saying no, not responding, or coming over just to get my hopes up. I am glad you figured them out and that she did agree to help because it models for her how she should ask for your help as well, but just watch your motives so you don't get hurt by unrealized motives.
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